Expectations, that's what life is about.

You often expect a lot from others when you stand on their expectations. They are close, close to what you never expect or you ever expected.

Expectations, that's what life is about.

A mother's from her very own creator.

A father's from his very own beginner.

A teacher's from it's very own learner.

A be-beloved's from it's very own lover.

A toddler's from it's very own leader.

A friend's from it's very own mirror.

From A-Z of our very own life, we consistently try, try to stand on what others expect from Us. And similarly expect from them too. Often what we end up with are bunch of expectations either not fulfilled by Us or by them.

Life become darker and more darker. Some get over it and let it go  while others keep them deep inside and let it grow. Difference that counts is how it matter to them. What was the reason they never stood or weren't able to stood?

Was that the most beautiful creation?

Was that my fruit's fulfillment?

Was that our love's wish?

Was that my learner's talent?

Was that my best-est reflection?

With the fight of not expecting and expecting, we unintentionally neglect to their wishes and wants. May be it wouldn't be that darker if we had seen through their sight. May be we would have made it a better place.

A place where one understands other, where expectations are delayed or rephrased but never fall. Expect as much as you wish to but within the walls of not only you of the people you expect from. Do think but not your way, keep it aside and fit into their shoe and explore them. Life will be beautiful and more beautiful.

Nevertheless, it is they who make your life not only you. They are your life not you! : )

WO-Man, hottest creature or Issue of our hypo-critic society!

OH Lord! I wonder you can only answer to this question as you are the creator of this universe, me and all.

Why? and I do repeat it again why?

It is always a wo-man to be questioned and accused for her doings, good or bad by the society but not a Man. 

I see Father killing his daughter in the name of Honor killing, a husband abusing for giving birth to a daughter, disgraced if she can't give you a child, murdered if caught in a love endorsed relationship, tortured if claims for her rights, sexually beleaguered more of it is the most bitter part they too are sold for a lump sum count in one’s wealth to the man-eater world.

Why my mum or even my friend’s mum need to worry and memorize us each day about the cruel world and its insecurities while going on work, school, and college or to a marketplace.

Why are we just limited to the pride of our father, husband or family not because how nicely we did our education or how successful we are in life?

But yes they will more proud when a society claims them moralistic and “pardaydar”. I feel sorry when a man sitting next to me claims that he will marry a woman who wears Hijab and does not had a crush on any other man.  

Dude what the hell are you doing sitting next to me?

What if I say I expect the same from the manly people around me that they won’t also marry any girl if they had been under a relationship with any other woman not one particularly.

An overview to what i mentioned above from the eye of our social happenings:

• In a country that forbids women to display their hair or bodies, Iranian models  adapt glamorous profession modeling according to Islamic rules. However, despite the strict dress code and lower rates of pay as compared to their counterparts elsewhere, it is still a sought-after profession for Iranian girls. A lesson for Pakistani models. Are man permitted to display their body parts?
• Pakistani actress Veena Malik and Model Hrishant Goswami were caught in action while getting cozy with each other where I notice many articles regarding Our male singers or artist on an international programs being kissed and hugged by every other fan coming to them.
• A 17-year-old girl was abducted, raped and paraded naked around the streets of her village for refusing the advances of a local landlord. 
• Several clerics have issued fatwas against former Pakistani minister Sherry Rehman and declared her an infidel for calling for changes in the blasphemy law, prompting civil society activists to register a complaint with police in the port city of Karachi today.
• The former husband of a 45-year-old woman tortured her and shaved her head and eyebrows at gunpoint, two years after their divorce in Larkana.
• Two pregna­nt women were killed in Khanew­al and Vehari allege­dly by their husban­ds abette­d by their families.
• No dowry, no bride, no wedding. New brides are expected to bring wealth into their in-laws' homes - a shocking and disgusting ritual.
• Mother of two enrolls in class one. 25-year-old Asma says she always wanted to attend school but her parents had forbid­den it.
• Not brought up strongly and ethically, mother's fault as the father was busy making money.
• The group of armed men stormed into the house of MS, a peasant who works for landlord Manzar Ali Jatoi.
• Dozens of police officials have been booked on charges of rape and other human rights violations of a serious nature during the last three years as the country is confronting unabated deterioration in the law and order situation.

There is a big clutter of such stories in our daily newspaper and TV headlines but yet they are actively increasing day to day. Why? Do you have a clue to it?

Why is our nation getting desperate to such doings? Dark ages but what is so indifferent, Today. I see nothing is.

It isn't that our mothers aren't a woman by gender, or our sisters can be a victim too. If we are responsible for their security why aren't we for every other woman around Us. 

Why do we harass or misuse their presence?